How do I prevent my husband from cheating?

Dear Aunty Amebo,
I noticed that my husband may be having an affair. Please, help me, how do I prevent my husband from cheating?

You can’t, at least not naturally. But you can try. You can commit his heart to God, asking Him to protect him – his heart, his emotion, his desires and whatever – for you. He is the only one who can prevent your husband from cheating. That is the fact. And while you are at it, you can try by not pushing him out there. Be the woman he fell in love with everyday. Be neat, tidy and sexy. Do not let yourself go. Some women are in the habit of letting themselves go once they are married. They stop taking care of themselves. Groom yourself every day, do his favourite hairstyle, wear clothes that flatter your shape, cook his favourite meals, be humble and submissive. Be everything he desires and wants in a woman.

You need to understand that your husband is an adult with freewill to do as he likes, just as you. Does that give him the right to hurt you? Definitely not! And I am not saying here that your husband should cheat on you. But the earlier you realised that you do not have the power over your husband’s desire and choice to cheat, the better prepared you would be, in case he does.

 * My AA readers, please what do you think?? *