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The vacay continues for Omotola Jalade-Ekeinde and her family as they
hit up Venice, Italy and shared some photos from their latest stop.
Omosexy, her hubby
Capt. Matthew Ekeinde and their children
Princess, M.J., Meraiah and
Michael, are seen exploring Venice.
Have you recently met a guy and have been pondering whether or not he’s into you?
Telling if a guy is actually into you is much easier than most women
think. Often time’s women let their own personal feelings get in the way
of their thinking and later realize that they have been wasting time
with a guy that doesn’t actually like them.
So, before you take things further, this article is here to show you
10 ways in which you can tell if a guy is really into you or not. The
first 5 will show you if he is attracted to you while the next 5 go so
far as proving if he is in love with you or not.
Even if he’s playing hard to get, these are things that he can’t
always control and will help your reveal the truth about his feelings.
1. Watch His Eyes
It’s very easy to tell if a guy is into you just by watching his
eyes. Unlike other body parts that we can control, our eyes are
different. If someone (male or female) is excited or has strong feelings
about something, their pupils dilate. So, if you are talking to a guy
and you see that his pupils are dilated it’s quite evident that he likes
you and is even turned on by you.
Also, when talking, you can tell by the way and looks and you and the
way he pays attention to you. If a guy makes eye contact often it tells
you a lot. We often reveal far more than we desire through our eyes so
be sure to look for this next time when you see him.
2. He Feels Happier Around You
This may seem like obvious advice but it’s very often overlooked. The
simple fact that a guy can’t hide his smile around you or the fact that
he is often overexcited tells you all you need to know. Sometimes
you’ll even see that the guy blushes easier just because you’re there.
If he’s fond of you or likes you this is the sort of stuff that will
reveal his feelings, you can even put him to them to the test.
3. He Does What You Like To Do
This is another prime example of what guys do to be in the presences
of someone they have strong feelings for. Think about the activities you
love and if you see him doing them with you it’s evident that he wants
to spend more time with you. Example a guy watches “The Notebook” with
you…
It doesn’t matter what his feelings are towards your interests, he will do them just so he can be in your presence more often.
4. Spending His Weekends With You
Because we all have busy lives, we view weekends as that part of the
week when we can relax and do what we ENJOY THE MOST. So, if a guy is
just your friend, he’ll leave the weekends for something else, something
that he enjoys the most. But, when a guy wants to spend whole weekends
with you, it’s very evident that you are one of the things that he
enjoys the most.
This happens involuntarily because when we like someone we just want
to be around them all the time. The guy won’t sit down and think “Hey,
if I hang around all day with her she’ll know that I’m head over heels
for her” No! The guy just does this because he feels it’s what he wants
to do the most over this weekend. So, if a guy wants to spend his
weekend with you, it’s clear that you mean a lot to him.
5. He’s Overly Concerned
We’re all concerned, at least to a degree about our friends and
relatives but, when you’ve got a guy that’s overly concerned about you,
it can only mean one thing. He’s truly into you.
If he asks you if you had lunch, offers his coat when you’re cold,
wants to take you to the doctor even if it’s a minor thing it means he’s
overly concerned about you.
This is ok at times but I do know it can become frustrating other
times. The fact is, it’s just one of those things a guy can’t control.
We have it in our instincts to “take care of our woman” and such
instincts only kick in when we feel something for her – which is a good
sign if you were wondering if he’s into you or not.
Ok so these first 5 ways show you if a guy is into you, but what
about being really into you? What about being in love with you? Well the
next 5 ways will take you a step further.
6. Loves To Touch You
Did you just get a new pair of earrings? Well he’s probably going to
want rub his fingers innocently by your ears as he checks them out. Any
man that likes a woman will want to touch her, all the time. It’s not a
perverted way of touching, but more a sensual one. Guys love to make
contact and if they really like you this is involuntary.
If you’ve got a guy constantly touching some part of you, it’s quite
evident that he’s really into you. We just can’t stop it, we want to
feel you all the time, it feels natural to us and it’s another way of
asserting our masculinity. So, if you feel the same way of course, you,
as a woman, should naturally respond to this by touching us back.
7. He Gives You a Nice Nickname
Nicknames are a fantastic, somewhat involuntary way for men to show
their emotions. See, unlike women, it’s much harder for us to show
emotions but a nickname is an easy way to do it. We basically take a
person we like and give her a nickname, by doing this we associate that
nickname with a feeling (usually pleasurable feeling) so, whenever we
say that word we feel that feeling. It’s outstanding how different we
are as human beings but this is a very basic way for a guy to show his
emotions.
Also, the more he calls you by that name the more he wants to feel
that feeling, which proves that this guy is head over heels for you.
8. Your Birthday Is Everyday
This is probably one of the most obvious ones but nevertheless
important. If you’ve got a guy sending you flowers at work, buying you
gifts, taking you out all the time – without a doubt he’s into you. If
he’s still doing this even after you’ve had sex, he’s probably in love
with you.
Again, men are not good at displaying emotions and often think that
presents and treating a woman is a good way to do it. Well, regardless
of your opinion on this issue; make sure you cherish these early stages
of the relationship because at least then this is how guys display their
affection.
9. Pays Attention To Your Needs
This is another one of those things that are completely involuntary
when a man is into a woman. It becomes even more evident when you’re in a
group of HIS friends. If he gives you special attention, more attention
that to his friends then you’ve got him because any guy that gives you
more attention than he gives to his friends is obviously caring much
more about you.
10. Watch His Friends
We, as humans, talk about what’s on our minds so, naturally, when you
fall in love with a person – that person is always on your mind – and
as a direct result all you talk about is that person.
If you meet up with his friends and they say stuff like “We’ve heard
so much about you” “Oh, It’s great to finally meet you” and even when
you start telling a story about you guys they say “Ah, we know…your guy
already told us” it’s quite evident that recently, all he’s been talking
about is you.
Also, if you’re out with his friends and they pay attention to what
you say, do and how you feel, you can know for sure that you’re guy
already told them that he likes you and wants them to be on their best
behavior to impress you.
This is very important to a guy, and I do it as well. Here’s why: men
do this because if a guys has his friends to be nice to you then you
will feel good around his friends (meaning you can hang out more
together) but this also has a double effect because if YOU are having a
nice time you will also be pleasant and as a direct result, his friends
will also like YOU. It’s funny because they were nice to you in the
first place and now they like YOU because of that.
So, to simplify, if a guy goes to all this trouble for you, he’s probably in love with you
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